He won't spend time with me

Eleanor from London, Canada

My husband never wants to spend time with me. When ever he has free time, he goes out or just wants to be left alone and not with his lifemate. He's nice to me and always tells me he loves me but it's as if he loves his friends more than me. He never takes me out anymore. No more dates, no more walks in the park, no more driving around just for fun, he wont even sit and watch a movie with me. I'm sure if I asked him to do these things, he would. But I want it to come from him. I want to feel that he wants to spend time with me. I'm a girl, I need to be loved. Why are men so stupid? It's like no matter how often you tell them, they just don't listen. I hope he visits this lifemates complaints sites and reads some of the complaints.