Do not be so giving to the wrong people

Rachel Wagman from Toronto, Canada

Last week, my lifemate and I had to walk down the block to the post office. On the way, sitting on the side of the side walk was a homeless guy. I felt bad for him and told my husband to give him some money. My husband walked over and gave him two dollars which was VERY generous. The man just took it and started his complaints for more. My husband actually reached back into his pocket and gave the man three more dollars. When he walked back to me, I was really upset, I started my usual line of lifemates complaints. First of all, five dollars is a lot of money when you live in a small two bedroom apt and have to pay the high rent. Second of all, the man didn't even say thank you. He just asked for more. Instead of taking the money back, or yelling at the man, or just not giving him anymore but still letting him keep the two dollars, he just gave him more. He hates confrontation and arguments. But this time he needed to say something. There are other reasons why I think he's a push over but it was a little ridiculous how he gave into a bum. I feel that I had to file a lifemates complaint about this.